Meet Miss Amber
Who am I?
I am not your typical sweet young thing, nor do I have the desire to be. I am a woman in my mid-thirties, and very proud of it. I have curves in the right places, and I keep myself fit to ensure I have the necessary strength to give you a sound beating. I have been told by many of my submissives that I have an ass made for worshipping. I am 5’2" in flats, 5’8" in boots. I’ve never found my height (or lack of) to be an issue. If anything, the juxtaposition between petite dominant and much taller submissive strikes a lovely contrast. And if you’re too tall, all the more reason for you to remain on your knees.
Kink-wise, I have been “in the lifestyle” for a long time - more than a decade. I play as both a dominant and a submissive, so I am familiar with the techniques, motivations, and sensations that come with either orientation. On the personal front, I am a lifestyle submissive. I have two dominants - my Master and my Sir - to whom I play the role of loving slave and delightful fucktoy respectively. On the community front, I have taught kink workshops both locally and internationally. I lead one of the kink education groups locally and organize both private and community kink events on a regular basis.
Some might feel that my being a lifestyle submissive impedes my ability to dominate you. I disagree. If anything, you could say I am acutely aware of what I’m subjecting you to. After all, I have been on the receiving end.
My Ideal Submissive
My ideal submissive is someone who channels strength through submission. There are a time and place for groveling, but I prefer that not to be the default. My ideal submissive will grovel when instructed to, but it should be something that doesn’t come easily. He is proud, yet willing to debase himself for my pleasure and amusement. There is a certain appeal to that which I find very attractive.
I appreciate a discerning submissive who understands himself and his motivations well. Professional domination is the provision of a service, and I see myself as both a fantasy fulfiller and radical healer. BDSM is not just physical for me; it is more the mental and emotional journey that I desire to take you on.
My Kinks
The following are the kinks I enjoy.
Please be aware that I do not offer intimate body worship of any sort.
Basic Kinks:
Chastity Play
Fancy being locked into a cock cage for the duration of the session, or having your cock tied up and secured out of the way? This is usually a favorite among submissives keen on humiliation and/or cross-dressing. I personally find it an absolute thrill to hold on to the key, making you intensely aware of your arousal and inability to achieve an erection… comfortably.
Corporal Punishment (Pain)
I enjoy the instilment of discipline, and what better way to do so than through corporal punishment? I have a wide repertoire of punishments up my sleeve that will test your physical endurance, pain threshold, and mental fortitude. Want to test me? I’m pretty sure you’ll earn yourself a punishment or two even if you try your best to be absolutely well-behaved.
Foot Worship
This is self-explanatory. If you’ve been a good submissive, you might earn yourself the right to kiss my feet and suck on my toes. If you’ve been extra good, I might just gag you with my feet or step all over your filthy body. I’ve been told I have beautiful feet. Wouldn’t you love to meet them?
Feminization
Often, submissives seeking feminization desire the humiliation that comes with their emasculation. Let me help you find your feminine persona. Is she a proper lady or a whore? Does she desire to be of service, or does she want to be tied spread eagle and taken like a harlot?
Humiliation
There’s something incredibly erotic about the subversion of social norms within a safe space, isn’t there? A big strong man like you being made to crawl around the room on all fours like an animal. Maybe you’ll even produce a bark and wag your ass at me eagerly. Or perhaps you just enjoy being talked down to, being told that you’re nothing but a piece of meat for me to push and prod for my amusement. Whatever the case, I’d love to break you.
Obedience Training
I am quite a fan of protocol and obedience training. Expect to be walked through a number of slave positions you will be expected to learn and internalize. Speech training and eye contact restriction are also favorites of mine. I desire a well-mannered and polite submissive who knows how to serve me exactly the way I like.
Restraints
I am versed in the use of different mediums to restrain you, should that be your thing. Fancy being made to feel absolutely helpless? I can tie you up or mummify you so tightly you’ll be entirely at my mercy. Perhaps your thing is predicament bondage? I love using rope and other fun toys to push your resolve. Prefer a heavier, more… medieval type of restraint? I have a metal stockade and manacles that will take away your mobility. (Metal restraints available only upon explicit request.)
Sensory Deprivation
I can take away your sight and speech. I can fill your senses with the smell and feel of leather. I can seal you in a cocoon so tight it will be as though you’re disconnected from your surroundings. Every single sensation and sound will be magnified. Do you trust me to take you there?
Tease and Denial
Now this one is truly a favorite of mine. I absolutely love watching you squirm as your orgasm eludes you time after time after time. I won’t even have to touch you to get you to dance to the tune I play. And when you think you’ve finally earned it… I go ahead and make you ruin it for yourself. Painful, isn’t it? But isn’t that what you deserve?
Advanced Play:
Anal Training
This is both an invasive and humiliating form of play. I am versed in approaching this very safely. Trust that I will not leave you with hemorrhoids or anal fissures.
Breath Control
You breathe when I let you. Not for beginners.
Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)
I really enjoy this, and most submissives have a bigger stomach for it than they imagine. I can take it really slow, such that we progress to more ‘hard-core’ techniques like ballbusting at a very gradual pace. I can’t think of any other kink that renders a big grown man more helpless than having his crown jewels subject to my whim and fancy.
Electroplay
Submissives with pacemakers are not advised to engage in this form of play. AT ALL. Seriously, it’ll be fatal. For the rest of you, this can be incredibly fun, but also very scary. I have a professional e-stim unit and neon wand that will make you jump right out of your skin! ;)
Golden Shower
Would you like to drink my nectar, or would you like to simply be drenched in it? Either way, I am more than happy to fulfill your fantasy.
Heavy Impact Play
A step up from corporal punishment which might involve the rattan cane and spanking, heavy impact play requires the use of implements which are a lot… harder to take. Examples include the French martinet, buffalo leather flogger, wooden paddle, Delrin cane and rubber slappers, to name a few. Do google the terms if you have no idea what they refer to. Try not to gasp.
Needle Play
I love this, but so far I’ve had no takers. This basically involves the insertion of hypodermic needles just under the surface of your skin. When done on me, I love the way it gets my endorphins rushing almost instantly. Definitely not for the faint-hearted.
Rough Body Play
Recreational abuse, as some might call it. I’m trained in martial arts and this involves me landing punches and kicks on the fleshy parts of your body. It enhances your vulnerability, especially when restrained. This is incredibly fun, but it has to be done safely. I require submissives to be very upfront about their medical health before I try this with them.
Urethral Sounding
If you thought having your anus violated was bad, try sounding. This involves me sticking a metal rod down your urethra. I compare it to being fucked in the most intimate way possible. My submissives love it and always beg to be sounded. Do you have the balls to try?
Contact Me
So you like what you’ve read so far, and you think you’d like to serve me? Drop me an email at servemissamber@gmail.com and we’ll see if you make the cut.

